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Dear Friends:
As this chapter of my life with Paul comes to completion, I want to express my deep thankfulness for all your kind notes of remembrance. As I read your comments, tears came to my eyes when I realized how deeply you loved and respected Paul. I never fathomed how powerfully Paul impacted your lives.
I believe those of you at GFS who initiated this blog pulled a fast one on Paul. I know he would have vetoed it, if he had known all the compliments that were to follow.
I have a story to pass on relating to Paul's good memory. At a recent Food Show, Paul and I were going through the isles. I saw a man that I should have known by name. In a whisper I asked Paul "What is his name?" He could not remember until they shook hands. Immediately Paul said, "Hi Bob how are you?".
Once again, I would like to thank you for your love and prayers for Paul, our family and myself. We have all been encouraged and blessed. The Lord has been our constant companion and helper through these difficult months. We have experienced His peace.
Paul would want me to leave you with a verse for you to ponder "whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life." John 5:24
~ Dottie Gordon,
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- May 19th, 2008
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I met Paul Gordon at a volleyball match. What a wonderful grandfather to come to Tennessee and to many other states to watch his grandaughter Courtney play collegiate volleyball for Lee University. My favorite memories were hearing him yell very loudly from the stands and especially when it was really quiet. The national tournament would not have been the same without him there to cheer us on. I never knew how important Paul was to so many people so I am in awe reading all of these great memories. To us he was just a proud grandad making his grandaughter feel special. What a magnificent christian and a wonderful example for us all. Lee Volleyball loves you and our prayers are with you Courtney, Dottie, and the rest of the family.
~ Andrea and Kevin Hudson, May 9th, 2008I have always had the deepest repect for Paul Gordon. He was an incredible family man, a man with the utmost integrity, an intelligent business man, and he had a profound love for the Lord that was evident to anyone who knew him. No matter what Paul always seemed to have time to talk and he was genuinely interested in what was going on in your life. He was deeply loved and will be deeply missed.
~ Aaron & Meredith DeRidder- New Tribes Mission-Papua New Guinea, May 9th, 2008To the rest of Gordon family, may God sustain you through this difficult time. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you. He was truly an amazing man.
I had the honor to be chosen to go on a trip to Utah with Paul and Dottie Gordon. What a wonderful person he was, so full of life and happiness. He made us all feel so special. Like paul, I also had a battle with cancer and he came to me with open arms wishings me the best and inspriation to carry on with god at my side.
He was such an inspriation to me at that time. Iwill never forget his kindness and his true concern for others. Paul was a special person in so many ways. I enjoyed spending time then with him and dottie, and
always looked forward to his visits to our store in Maumee, ohio
I know his family will truly miss him, but you will never know, just how much his GFS family will miss him.
My prayers and well wishes to all his family. As Paul watches over us, we will miss you dearly Paul!!!
My deepest and best wishes to his wife Dottie, you were truely blessed with a special man as your partner in life.
He may be gone from here on earth, but not in our hearts.
Take care and God bless and watch over the Gordon family.
Nancy Friend - Maumee Store
~ nancy Friend -maumee ohio, May 9th, 2008Being with Paul Gordon was like being part of something special, quick to laugh and joke. He never took himself too seriously. We all
~ Kevin and Meg Cusack, May 9th, 2008knew his priorities God, Family and GFS.. We will miss him greatly. I trust our memories of him will be a comfort to us all, until we see him
again.
I never had the good fortune of meeting Paul Gordon but over the past 40 years that I’ve been in the food service industry (chef,owner, manager,CDM) in one capacity or another, I’ve alway’s heard only good things about him. He must have been a man of great integrity and character to develope such a great company. Gordon Food Service is well known for it’s business principles of quality, honosty and trust, and that, I believe, is a direct reflection of Paul himself. I have been very enriched over the years from doing business with GFS, and still feel the pride and satisfaction today of doing business with the wonderful Gordon family and it’s team (family) members.
~ Chef John Rumney, Grand Rapids, MI, May 9th, 2008How we thank the lLord for Paul Gordan. The joy of staying in their home and watching the deer and the fun at the lake when he let me use the scadoo that did not have the license will never be forgotten. He was such a compassionate visionary. A huge encourgement to need struggling doubting Thomas like me. My condolence to all the family and especially Dotty.
~ george verwer, May 9th, 2008The Good Book defines greatness as the ones who served the most. By that definintion Paul Gordon was a great man. I have fond memories of being stranded in Michigan over a Christmas holiday in the early 1970s and spending Christmas day with my college buddy Dan Gordon and his gracious family. I have the legendary destinction of being perhaps the least talented worker ever to work at Gordon’s warehouse. Years later I accomapnied Dan and Paul to a dinner show in Las Vegas to see impressionist Rich Little. The Gordons were in town for a trade show. I still remember the deep rich, laugh of Paul at some of the funny rountines. As fate would have it,years later I was a part of the entertainment at one of the Christmas banquets with Kenny Rogers. I remember being proud to hear Paul quote scripture during his remarks before the show. I was glad for Kenny Rogers to hear where a great business leader was coming from. There may be people who have impressed me more than Paul Gordon, I just can’t think of any. What an example for all of us! He raised the bar pretty high. When I am traveling through the midwest I get a smile on my face every time I see a Gordon’s truck, knowing the intregrity and the rich legacy that goes behind that name. I am proud to have know the man. His influnce will continue to touch me.
~ doug dean, May 9th, 2008I wish I could say that I knew Paul Gordon well, but that was not the case. There were only a few times that we chatted in the hall as he was on his way to a meeting. In just those couple of times though, I found him to be one of the most endearing people I have ever met. Since he had to leave us I am glad to know that he is now at peace and has made it Home.
~ Lorie T., May 9th, 2008Mr. Gordon touched countless lives and truly made a difference during his time on earth. From his business life to his countless acts of charity, he represents the ideal person. There is no way adequately express appreciation for all that he has done. My family and I offer our sincerest condolences to the Gordon family.
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008It was a special blessing and honor for us to have known Paul Gordon in the last ten years.
We met him for the first time in Lichtenstein and were so touched by his humble and genuine warmth, his wonderful sense of humor, his love and care for his wife and the other members of the Board. His interest in our small country Bulgaria and God’s ministry there was so genuine, that he visited the country later and we shall always remember that. We have been in his home and have experienced the wonderful hospitality of his wife Dottie. We shall never forget his joy to take us on a motor-boat ride on the lake. His encouragement, his care, his way of making every one feel special, his generosity, his deep faith in God made a deep impact on us and an example to follow. We are thankful to the Lord for such a well lived life for His glory!
Our hearts go out to his dear wife Dottie and the family during this time of separation and may God’s peace and love be with you.
Nick and Grace Nedelchev, Sofia, Bulgaria
~ Grace and Nick Nedelchev, May 9th, 2008In 1987, I had been President of Kraft Foodservice in Santa Ana, California for 6 months. In my first six months as President I had learned exactly how much I didn’t know about foodservice distribution. I received a phone call from Paul, saying that he was on vacation in Los Angeles visiting his daughter and grandchildren. He asked if he could come down to Santa Ana and tour our facility and visit about the foodservice business in Southern California. What followed was one of the most memorable and delightful afternoons of my career in foodservice. In five hours he shared a lifetime of knowledge with me that I will never forget. He patiently answered hundreds of questions from a rookie President, and acted as if he would have sat there all night. Story after story, example after example, he was a gifted teacher. He asked as many questions as he answered, which to this day still brings a smile to my face as it was obvious that, in this industry icon’s mind, he never thought he new enough about the business, and was always searching for a better way, a better answer. His passion and enthusiasm for family, friends, and business were contagious. To this day, I refer to that afternoon as my Doctorate in Life and Foodservice Distribution.
~ Michael J. Duggan, Dot Foods, May 9th, 2008I worked for Gordon Food Service from 1978-1980, both in customer service and in helping to set up the very first retail outlet on site in Grand Rapids right at the headquarters. I first got to know Paul and Dottie through Gull Lake Bible Conference, where I worked four summers in a row while in college/grad school. After those four summers at Gull Lake, I started to work for GFS, and sometimes I would ride down to the lake with Paul on the weekends to spend time with friends. He was an amazing man. He loved GFS, he loved Gull Lake, he loved people, and he loved the Lord. When I shared my plans with him to leave GFS and become a short term missionary, he told me to go out and raise as much financial support as I could and then come back and see him. I did that. I was able to raise my monthly support but was still short a fair amount of money for my airline ticket. Paul wrote me a check for the balance of what I still needed. Not very many employers will send off a departing employee with their blessing and a donation! I’m sure he will be greatly missed by his family, friends, former employees, and others whose lives he touched. Blessings to the Gordon family!
~ Leeann Riederer Yamakawa, May 9th, 2008Sincerely,
My wife and I have been employed by Gordon Foods Service for about two years now. In that time we both got to meet Paul and the family. I am proud to say I work for the company and everyone I talk to gets to hear of the company, the family, and the legacy. Each and every day we go to work we are proud to strive to keep the integrity that the Gordon’s have brought to the company. When I first met Paul at orientation, he was introduced and he introduced his “driver”. I thought to myself “Oh, just another overpaid higher up at a big company”. Paul was then playfully hit by Dottie and she introduced herself as his wife. From that comment through the next hour I started to realize what kind of company I got myself into. My wife and I will proudly commit the rest of our working careers towards the goals that were started by Paul and the family. Thank you Paul for your service to the company, the world, and our Lord. Now lets continue to GFSify the world.
Clay Ave Selection
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008GFS Payroll
I went to winner circle with my son in 2006. When I meet Paul Gordon, I knew that he is the type of person with a big heart. I only talked to Paul for a few minutes and he remembered my name forever. I thought that was amazing. His laugh and smile brings so much to life and happiness to my son and my family. I told my son, GFS is a great company and that work hard and try to be like Paul. When my son told me that Paul was ill, I prayed. I am sorry to the Gordon Family for your loss. Paul Gordon will always be in my prayers. GOD BLESS. I know that my son is Proud to hitch his buggy to yours. Thank You Paul.
~ Huang Family ( Wayne, NJ ), May 9th, 2008God led me to partner with GFS 19 years ago this April and what an honor it’s been. GFS was just entering Chicago and I was offered the opportunity to introduce the city I loved to the company I would eventually give my passion and energy to. I didn’t yet have a company car my first week (April 1989) with the company but my supervisor asked me to “pick Paul Gordon up at O’Hare Airport and drive him to Fort Wayne for the Spring Food Show”. We joked about how crazy Chicago drivers were (he was talking about me) and we connected for the full 3 hour ride. It was that unique and simple connection that has lasted a lifetime, has permeated friends and family as I boast about this company, and has fueled my desire to honor the Gordon family all these years.
~ Larry Erickson - Louisville, KY, May 9th, 2008I’ve told anyone who would listen that Colossians 3:17 has guided my career, “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” It’s been a priviledge to witness this through the life of the Gordon family and particularly Paul.
Thank you Dottie and to all the members of the Gordon family. Please know that you have our loving prayers and gratitude for all you’ve been and done for us.
St Jean sur Richelieu.P.Que. Canada May 9th,2008
It is with deep sorrow that we were inform of the passing of Mr. Paul Gordon.Like a lot of people I was one of the lucky one’s to meet Mr. Paul during my working days with GFS Mtl. and Distal. Paul Gordon will be missed;this men had always a good word for every one that he met.A great “CHIEF”he was. This thrue gentlemen will always be in our memories.Ours prayers are with all of you.
~ Jean & hélène Dubois, May 9th, 200815 years ago I started with GFS and attended my first sales meeting with Dan Cox as my manager. Before the meeting began, I struck up a conversation with a very enthusiastic sales rep. He had a twinkle in his eye as he talked about the company and the people he worked with at GFS. I shared with him that this was my first meeting and he asked me all sorts of questions to help me be more at ease.
When I saw my manager again, I pointed out the sales rep I was speaking to and said, “After talking to him, I know I made the right decision to work for this company. You can tell he loves GFS after so many years.” Dan smiled slightly and said “That’s Paul Gordon.” It was at that exact moment Paul stole my heart.
~ Sid Pearce, May 9th, 2008Paul Gordon is best described for me as a gift, a present from a gracious Giver. He was a smile, a laugh, a hug, a tear. He was success and humility. He walked this earth somewhat silently but left footprints on souls…the number only God knows. As a grateful receiver, I want to thank his most precious family for sharing him with me. And I thank our loving Savior for the example He gave me in Paul and the challenge He hands me today to follow Paul’s lead.
~ Linda Keegstra (GFS 1994-2005), May 9th, 2008With my deepest sympathy,
Our deepest sympathy to the Gordon family and the whole GFS family. Paul played a important role for myself in the many paths my life has taken and for my family in our belief and trust in God and His plan for us. God bless, and thank you Paul! You will always a part of my family, and your family will always be in our prays.
~ David & Melanie Vize, May 9th, 2008It has been a true pleasure knowing and working for Paul Gordon. I am honored and blessed to have known such a great man. He is a true legacy. With his strong mind, love of Christ, and knowing the true meaning behind Servant Leadership he will be missed a great deal. My heart is overwhelmed with the amount of laughter,joy, and pride he has brought into our lives.
I am honored to “Hitch my ride” here at GFS. Thanks Paul!!!
~ ~Anonymous, May 9th, 2008Paul will truly be missed.
I think this site says it all. Paul was a man who was not afraid to share his love for Christ and lived it daily. He has left his footprint and an incredable legacy for all of us. I have been Blessed to have known him and Proud to work for him. God Bless
~ Todd and Pam Williams, May 9th, 2008I was lucky enough to work at GFS in the early 70’s and got to see Paul Gordon almost daily. He was a wonderful man and as so many have already said he never forgot a name. You always felt by his presence he was a special person and made this world a better place to live. He was a great sport and at all of the Christmas parties we enjoyed the skits that included him. Thanks for all the great memories and I know the Angels are getting ready for a great Homecoming.
~ Jane Tharp, May 9th, 2008The greatest comandant is this. You shall love the lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. The second it like the first. You shall love your neighbors as yourself.
Jesus said “as you do to others so also you shall do unto me”.
To Paul I would like to say WELL DONE GOOD AND FAITHFULL SERVANT
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008One thing that I’ll always remember about Paul is his unique memory. He always called so many people by their first names and we know he knew a whole lot of people. He always called me by name and that was without me wearing a name badge. Our prayers are with the family.
~ David & Kathy Dobry, May 9th, 2008I was walking down the isle, at the last food show in Louisville, looking for the next booth when Paul stopped me in my tracks, introduced himself and asked who I was where I was from and if there was anything he could do for me. We talked for several minutes, going from one subject to another. Over the course of the day I ran into to Paul several times, he made a point to joke with me each time. I knew right away Paul was a very special person. The smile he gave you and the overwhelming feeling of kindness that surrounded him made me feel very fortunate that I was able to meet him. I send my sympathy to his Family and Friends as I am sure there will be an emptiness in each of them.
~ Becky Allan, May 9th, 2008Mr. Gordon and Goordon Food Srvice has always been a role model for me since I was first getting into food service. My company chose to attempt to emulate Gordon Food Servcie. Most every deision we made included the comment, “What would Paul Gordon do?”. He has obviously made many good decisions in his life and he has touched and positively influenced many people in his life. He will be missed. My family and I will keep him and his family in our prayers.
~ Ed Furbee, May 9th, 2008Paul Gordon was one of the greatest Christian men I have ever had the opportunity to know. He showed his love for Christ in the way he treated people, the way he ran his busines and the way he enjoyed life. I was so impressed when he delivered a devotion on Psalm 16 at a business meeting - - not only because he believed strongly enough to deliver it, but because of the quality of his personal interpretation of the meaning of the Psalm. It is taped to my computer monitor and I read it regularly. Today it has special meaning: “Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices; my body also will rest secure, because you will not abandon me to the grave” (Psalm 16: 9)
I love you, Paul and the example you have set for us.
~ Terry Kjellsen,, May 9th, 2008I have had the thrill of meeting Mr Gordon just a few times and he made me feel as if I was the most important person at GFS - from the sounds of things he gave that feeling to millions of other people.
I consider it an honor and a privilege to have known such a great man, to work for and with such a wonderful company and group of people who are allowed to openly express our feelings and worship Our Lord. I only wish I had been able to talk to Mr Gordon more. My sincere sympathy to his family, close friends and GFS family for losing a truly fantastic person. I hope he realized how much he was loved. Thank you for sharing your husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather with us, we are all thankful for your generosity.
“A life well-lived is a precious gift
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008of hope and strength and grace
from soneone who has made our world
a brighter, better place.
It’s filled with moments sweet and sad,
with smiles and sometimes tears,
with friendships formed
and good times shared
and laughter through the years.
A life well-lived is a legacy
of joy and pride and pleasure,
a loving, lasting memory
our grateful hearts will treasure.”
I had the honor of being chosen to go on a GFS trip last year to Los Cabos, Mexico and while the resort we stayed at was gorgous and the views of the mountains and ocean were outstanding, my true reward was to be able to spend a week with Paul and Dottie. From talking to other people, I knew that Paul was a special person, but to actually spend time with him and to observe first hand how he lived and loved life was a blessing that God bestowed on me. I just wish his life would have intermingled with mine more than it did, but at the same time I have to give thanks for the week I got to be with and interact with him. He truly was a unique and inpsirational individual and he certainly touched my life.
~ Rick Morgan, May 9th, 2008I am personally blessed to have known Paul and worked for this great company for 45 years. It is an extraordinary blessing to work for the Gordon family, who exemplify their Christian values, as well as the Cornerstone values, as a foundation to building GFS on. Paul Gordon was a genuine caring and loving person. His unwavering faith and love for our Lord and Savior have been an inspiration to me over the years. His legacy of deep faith will always be remembered and admired, as well as his genuine caring heart; and may it always continue to be the focus and center of GFS as well. Paul was a very special man and will be deeply missed, and someday we will rejoice together in Heaven. I am just so thankful for the opportunity to have know Paul and the wonderful memories I have - they are precious and I’ll never forget them. To the entire Gordon family, you have my deepest and heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I will continue to lift you up in prayer to our Heavenly Father.
~ Sharon Boerema, May 9th, 2008Hello
My name is Brent. I did not have the pleasure of ever meeting Pual. I was a waiter for 26 years and i was very aware or GFS products. I was very surprised when we opened a GFS product with it’s very gerneric packaging and was amazed at the Quality. I am sad at the Passing of Paul Gordon though i never had any interaction with the company. I just knew that a man that offfered products of the Quality of GFS must have been a man of Quailty himself.
~ Brent Bakka, May 9th, 2008My (and my wife’s) favorite memory of Paul is from a annual meeting about 4 years ago (the one that had the carnival rides). My wife and I had a great time and we had seen Paul and Dottie several times throughout the evening, and about 11:45pm we were finally tired enough to call it quits and head back to the hotel. As we were leaving the party we came across Paul and Dottie near the exit talking to a few other employees laughing and telling stories. We stayed for another 15 minutes or so and Paul had us in stitches telling some great stories. The whole time Dottie stood there patiently holding both their coats. When Dianne and I left Paul was still there talking and had drawn more of a crowd. Each year at the meeting my wife made it a point to find Paul and he always greeted her as if she were part of the family.
~ Randy Bushman, May 9th, 2008So blessed to have worked with GFS close enough to have met Paul Gordon. Our interactions were brief, but always memorable. One memory was him attending a speech I was asked to give to a bunch of GFS Operators at a Food Show. He came up to me afterward and said, “you hit them from the left, you hit them from the right… Good Job!”… and he walked away. He always made me feel like I was “on the team” which made you fight even harder for GFS.
My thoughtful thanks to Paul Gordon and all the Gordon’s for the humble example they set for everyone.
~ Paul Rossi, Tyson Foods, May 9th, 2008My deepest sympathy to the Gordon Family. I have worked for GFS for 10 years now, and only had a couple of opportunities to talk with Paul, but each time it was a special moment. He had a great way of relating to everybody, and making you feel like you were part of a big family. He will be sadly missed as the “Icon” of our family.
~ Greg Lazzell, May 9th, 2008Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Gordon Family
~ Nathalie Bessette, Claude Marchand and Nadia Courville - Distal Boucherville Canada, May 9th, 2008I first met Paul Gordon in the hallway of Gordon Foodservice in the late 80’s. I had just graduated from college and had just been employed. When I bumped into him, he Welcomed me to the company by name. I was surprised and then shocked when he inquired about where I had come from in West Africa.
Incredibly, Paul’s involvment in missions had taken him on a missions trip in 1976 to Lagos Nigeria where he and several others stayed in a small missionary guest house that my Mom managed. What amazed me was that more than a decade later, he not only remembered the trip, but the name of my mother who was his host.
When she visited the United States later that year, Paul graciously invited her and I to lunch. I will never forget the generosity of Spirit and genuine warmth and care that he showed for others. May His soul rest in perfect peace.
~ Lola Audu, May 9th, 2008The day of my father’s funeral a few years ago was a difficult one indeed… but before it started I was so encouraged to see Paul & Dottie walk in. Their presence there truly comforted me and that they took the time to join me and my family in remembering my sweet dad impacted us greatly! This display of concern and compassion for us was extended to all those with whom he connected. What a blessing and honor it was to have known such a kind, humorous, and humble man of God. My heart goes out to his dear family and friends during this time, and may they sense God’s overwhelming peace and love today and in the days to come.
~ Deb Timinskis, May 9th, 2008I have been so wonderfully blessed to be a part of this company (ministry) for almost 17 years. For many years I thought of it as a job and a great one at that. A job working for a caring and inspiring family. A few years back Jim talked about the fact that Dan nor he or any family member owned the business. They were just taking care of it and making it better for the next generation. That in fact the business belonged to our Lord and Savior. I had the opportunity to meet and talk with Paul several times in my 16 years here and he truly is a disciple. While we will all miss spending time with Paul here on earth we take comfort in knowing his is watching over us. We take comfort in knowing he has left us with tremendous stewards and care takers lead by the family he raised. May God Bless all of us especially Dottie and the family as we mourn the loss, celebrate the life and rejoice in the rising.
~ Kevin Kolenda, May 9th, 2008My deepest sympathies to Mr. Paul Gordon’s family and friends.
~ Freddie Ball London, KY, May 9th, 2008I feel it is a honor to be a part of Gordon Food Service. A company that puts GOD first.
My prayers to the Gordon Family at this time of loss.
One of my memories of Paul was when we went to my one of my best friend wedding. I was in the wedding. My husband and son, not knowing Paul, sat next to him and Dottie. My son, just a little tyke was playing with Paul’s glasses. He had totally enjoyed sitting next to Paul. We feel blessed that we have known a man with Paul quantities.
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008I struggle to find the words today to convey how I feel when I think of Paul Gordon. In my entire life, there has never been a man I’ve respected more or one that I feel has lived out his life in a more Godly way. Countless times since meeting him in 1988, I’ve been blown away with his consistent example of lifting up others and God instead of himself. The more the Lord blessed him with, the more he gave to others and the less recognized for it he wanted to be. What an HUGE example he’s been to us all when it comes to giving.
I’ll never forget how much I would smile looking at his scuffed dress shoes when he would bring me a personal project to paint or design. Here was a very financially successful man conducting business with what I’m sure were comfortable, but very worn shoes. Most men in his spot would “dress the part” but this was not him. He was not concerned with impressing others with clothes or money, and because of that, his sincerety, warmth and caring left an amazing impression on everyone he met. I used to think and still do today, that those shoes may have been worn out, but what a strong message they sent to those around him. I just loved what he stood for. He got it right.
One of the most special parts of Winning Gold Club for me was walking up on stage and getting a hug and handshake from Paul. You see my respect for Paul is immeasurable. His values, honesty, humility, generosity and warmth were so consistent throughout his life. To have a man like that reach out and give you a bear hug that made you feel like you were one of his own was priceless and not something I’ll ever forget. The amount of people he’s touched has to be incredible and I know his reward in heaven is unbelievable for there are so many things he did and people he touched that we probably don’t even know about.
I’ll never forget how honored I was when Paul and Dottie attended our wedding. As just two employees out of thousands, it meant the world to us that they would attend. I’ll never forget seeing that big grin on his face when I looked out or again, the bear hug afterward. He probably never really knew just how much it meant to have him there.
We’ve often talked with our young daughters about Paul with pride, explaining his values and how we know the reason God has blessed GFS as a company (and our family through it) was directly because of his “faith in action” way of living and running his business. He will always be remembered with our utmost respect and much fondness as he has made a huge impact on our lives as a person and through GFS.
Dottie, you must be so proud of how your husband lived his life. It is a tremendous honor to be able to say we knew him and have been greatly touched by his life. Our prayers are with you and your family.
~ Phyllis & Scott DeVos, May 9th, 2008On February 4, 1980, my first day working in the warehouse for Gordon Food Service, my supervisor took me upstairs to introduce me to Mr Paul Gordon. I very nervously put out my hand to shake his and said something like “Hello Mr Gordon, my name is Wayne Vander Molen, thank-you for giving me the opportunity to work for your company.”
He looked me straight in the eye’s, smiled, and said “Mr Gordon?….that’s my Dads name………..call me Paul.” He then broke into that wonderful chuckle he was so famous for.
I was certain right then and there that I had found the employer that I wanted to spend my career with. I am so happy and thankful for the continued opportunities this company has provided me with through the years.
To the Gordon family….. please know that you are loved and appreciated. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your deep loss is heavens greatest gain.
~ Wayne Vander Molen, May 9th, 2008To the entire Gordon and GFS Family, my deepest sympathies and heartfelt prayers are with you all. I was fortunate to get to know Paul during new employee orientation sessions for the Marketplace division while I was employed with GFS Marketplace in training and development.
A long life well lived; a truly incredible rich legacy passed on to all who were touched by this remarkable man.
May the many wonderful memories of Paul comfort you during this sad time.
With deepest sympathy,
~ Pam Bolt, May 9th, 2008Pam Bolt
Orlando, Florida
I was fortunate to meet Paul in February of this year during an event at the 420 building in Grand Rapids. We ate lunch together. He was so full life!!! He continuously thanked all the employees around him for their hard work and commitment to GFS. He was very proud that GFS profit sharing had risen to such a high level. I could tell he truely enjoyed watching his employees prosper as the company grew. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I feel blessed to have known this man. The Gordon Family Philosophy will forever be a part of his legacy.
~ Doug Anderle, May 9th, 2008My wife and I met the Gordons when they aquired the ID Division. The best memory of Paul and the rest of the family is how they took everyone in and treated them like part of the family. Paul would always greet you with a smile and a hand shake. He has left a legacy behind and will truly be missed. It has been an honor and pleasure to have known Mr. Gordon.
~ Michael and Tammy Messer, May 9th, 2008We met Paul and Dottie roughly twenty years ago on a GFS trip and thought – who is this man that carries more books in his luggage than clothes? With a charming personality that makes everyone around him feel truly special. That discusses our global economy (in 1989!) in one breath and asks about the well-being of your children in the next. That joyfully embraces life in every conversation and activity. That shares his faith thru words and more importantly, actions and good deeds. We will always be grateful to him for his kindness, care, and Christian example. The prayers of our family are with you at this time.
~ Chris and Scott Hicks, May 9th, 2008Deepest sympathy and condolences to the the Gordon family. A genuine Food Service company that makes a difference to its valued employees and customers.
~ B.McGivern DSR Neptune Vancouver., May 9th, 2008In the early 1980’s as a young buyer at GFS, I wanted to go to Seattle to check-out some innovative new seafood products. Paul said, “Great, I’ll go with you!” This caused me to have two sleepless weeks of worry. How could I possibly answer all his questions and expectations for building the business and justifying such a trip. The trip turned out to be the most enjoyable and profitable learning experience that I ever had. He put me at ease immediately and made sure we had fun. Just last summer, I saw Paul at a local restaurant after being gone from the company for eleven and a half years. I just wanted to introduce myself in hopes that he might know who I was. Before I even got close he shouted out my name, walked to me with his cane and slapped me on the back. He said, “Remember how much fun we had when we went to Seattle”. I was again put at ease, amazed and uplighted by his kindness and encouragement. He taught me to make a better effort to remember and encourage other people that I come in contact with daily for reasons far beyond being professional or profitable!
~ Jim Linton, GFS 1978-1996, May 9th, 2008We had the privilege to meet Paul and Dottie on a Cornerstone trip through China in 2004. Ever since then, we have thought back many times to what a privilege it was to get to know and travel with that extraordinary couple. Such boundless enthusiasm - and energy (and never a complaint). Their delight in meeting the Chinese people in the numerous cities we visited. And to see the response of the Chinese who just loved them because they could truly see the love of God shining through their lives.
~ Bob and Carol Hamrin, May 9th, 2008Paul truly was a giant - because he had learned to be a humble servant of God. And he had a strong woman by his side that God richly blessed Him with as a true Proverbs 31 wife. We loved watching them with their children and grandchildren, and were so happy to be included in the “Cornerstone Family” for even a short time.
Praise God for two such faithful servants. May God’s peace and comfort rest upon Dottie and all the family at this homecoming for Paul.
Paul Gordon had a way of making anyone feel realy confortable in his presence. He was a wonderful example of God’s love and grace no matter where he went. He truely lived by the Word. I will always be greatful to him for the beautiful way he displayed the influence of the Holy Spirit in his life, and that I am free to do the same here in Bulgaria and in My ministry in Europe and Iraq . I will miss him a great deal. I will never forget His way of comunication and life full of joy and intusiasme . I wish to spend more time with him and get from his wisdom.
~ Nick Nedelchev, May 9th, 2008May the family feel the assurance he felt as he went home! Bulgarians have a great respect and memory with Him.
Nick Nedelchev
Bulgarian Evangelical Theological Institute
My deepest sympathy and condolences to the Gordon family.
~ Tangela Burns, May 9th, 2008My prayers go out to your family, may God Bless and keep you all
I have a quote on my cube wall from Roy Lessin that says:
“Just think. You’re here not by chance, but by God’s choosing. HIS hand formed you and made you the person you are. He compares you to no one else - You are one of a kind. You lack nothing that HIS grace can’t give you. He has allowed you to be here at this time in history. To fulfill HIS special purpose for this generation.”
I read that almost every day and each day it means something a little different. As I read it today.. I thought.. Thank heaven He compares me to no one else!
Paul was a great man and truly inspriational. Each year at the annual meeting when the Gordon’s share their faith, I think “wow, what if just one person is saved tonight because of what they are sharing or how they do business”…. How incredible that would be!
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008It has been a true honor knowing Paul. Paul was a man that so many knew, honored, and loved. We were all truly blessed to work for such a great man and company. It brings warmth to my heart listening to all the stories everyone has shared this week. Paul has brought so much joy into our lives. From packing the first trailer out of
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008As members of the GFS Family we were fortunate enough to have met and talked with Paul and Dottie on many occasions since 1994. On one of those occasions was a Winners Circle trip to the Grand Canyon. Paul and Dottie joined us on our walking path around the Canyon. The Grand Canyon is impressive enough on it’s own, but with Paul Gordon beside you giving you his deepest thoughts on how God created this Canyon for all of us to see in wonderment. Everyone was silent and listening to Paul’s voice echo out over the Canyon walls; it just filled my heart with warmth and my eyes with tears. Paul took a photo of Kevin and I that day on his own camera and later sent a copy to us. I believe with my whole heart, that it was the person behind the camera that makes that my favorite photo.
Paul was constantly teasing Kevin and I about being his family from the UP….”How many day’s ago did you leave home to get here” he would tease whenever we traveled to a Grand Rapids event…..as if we had to come by snowshoe!! As we go on with our days, it will be with a heavy heart but with a loving smile on our face as we remember our friend and mentor. Thank you to Dottie and your children for sharing your father with all of us.
~ Kevin and Milinda MacQuarrie, May 9th, 2008My first meeting with Mr. Gordon was in East Bernstadt, KY. I was the only female in senior management at ID. We had just been bought by GFS, Mr. and Mrs. Gordon entered the room and Paul crossed the room shook my hand and said I’ve heard all about you and it’s a pleasure to have a lady that’s not an RD but a true business person on board. (I realize he meant nothing derogatory about RD’S but he was paying a complement to me, I will always cherish.)
~ Cathy Sand, May 9th, 2008Mrs. Gordon said “I’ve told him for a long time we need some good women in this company!” Mr. Gordon will be missed by everyone he ever met; he truly left a great impression on everyone, not only making you feel good about yourself also making you want to make other feel good.
Proud to have been a player on the GFS team back in 80’s - It was an exciting time of emerging growth - before the Marketplace stores really took-off, before the Canadian market opened, before DC’s popped up across the country. I recall the first announcement of the coming state-of-the art Clay Ave distribution center and first witnessing the revised skyline with the massive building and glowing GFS logo lighting the night…they were exciting times that preceded the even more exciting growth that continues today. I recall my days at GFS with great fondness and am greatful for the experience to have worked with amazing people. Chosen by Paul, role models could be found in virtually every office in the 50th St. complex - he simply had a way of inspiring greatness. A corporate culture based on Christian principles is truly a rare find, and an environment to be cherished in today’s world. I met Paul on several occassions as I worked on several communications projects for his beloved Gull Lake Bible Camp. He was always kind, gracious, humble, appreciative, and his big laugh and genuine grin would light the room. He was the real deal - proving that a truly successful businessman is one who has his priorities straight. If a man is measured by what he leaves behind, Paul is truly a giant. Condolences to Paul’s family, and the entire GFS family of employees, suppliers, and associates. Earth’s loss is Heaven’s gain.
~ -Anonymous, May 9th, 2008Absent from the body — present with the Lord.
For more than forty years I have valued and cherished Paul’s friendship — he has been a dearly beloved friend, mentor and co-laborer with both Rose-Marie and me; on May 6th she was there to greet Paul into the eternal presence of our Lord. Regrettably, I am in Romania and unable to convey my condolences to Dottie and the Gordon family. If I was on the North American continent, I would certainly make the trip to Grand Rapids to greet them personally. May the words spoken by Jesus in John 11:25, 26 be the words of assurance to each member.
With sincerest prayers,
Carl H. Smith
~ Carl H. Smith, May 9th, 2008I was blessed to get to know Paul while doing New Employee Orientation for GFS. My favorite memory with him was when he would stop by training classes, that I was teaching. He would come in, take a seat, and start participating just like one of the class members. He would stay about an hour and then he would leave. As he left he would always say it was nice meeting all of you, I just wanted to see what was going on in Training. He made us all feel very special during those visits.
~ Charise Bos, Training and Development Department, May 9th, 2008What can possibly be added to these incredible tributes to Paul? Just sincere gratitude to have met such a man. When I came to work at GFS, after many years in the broker community, Paul went out of his way to welcome me and make me feel as if I had always been part of the GFS family. I never saw Paul without that wonderful smile on his face.
He will be remembered for his faith, love and generosity, but also for the loving family who will carry on these qualities. And they will find out that Paul will be there for them when they most need him and least expect him. My deepest sympathy to the Gordon family.
~ Mary-Kay Camp, May 9th, 2008Paul was a true child of God. While Paul is no longer with us, His life legacy is one that all of us should take notes from. Thank You Paul!!! and God Bless
~ Matt Mayle, May 9th, 2008I have had the privilege of working for the Gordon Family for nigh onto 44 years. I have never had the misfortune of working for another employer. I, like so many others, have experience first hand the love Paul had for his employees. I will miss him dearly.
~ Bob Tuinstra, May 9th, 2008I am a new employee in the past 2 months, and I regret that I did not have the opportunity to meet Mr. Gordon personally. In my brief time here, I am impressed with the company culture that has been built and the genuine love and respect that GFS people have for the Gordon family and the company. It is a rare thing in today’s world.
I look forward to working here for many years to come and hopefully contributing in some small way to enhancing the environment at GFS. Mr. Gordon will surely be missed, and many prayers are on the way for the Gordon family during their time of grief.
A partner in His service,
~ Jef Fite, GFS Marketplace, May 9th, 2008I had the privilege to get to know Mr. Gordon while working for his attorney. He (and the entire Gordon family) were always so kind and their faith and generosity always inspired me. Mr. Gordon was my very favorite client, always greeted me with a smile and kind words. He will be greatly missed but his legacy will live on through his family, GFS employees, and all those whose lives he touched.
~ Jill Ver Lee, May 9th, 2008I only met Paul Gordon once but even in that meeting he left indelible mark on me as he was so engaged and interested about me, my business and Ireland! Paul’s and GFS influence is so widespread as I was able to spend 2 months at GFS on an internship from Ireland and got to see at first hand the incredible family it is. Paul was an incredible man of faith and just reading the tributes has been touching. It was so beautiful to see how he was not only a great man of business but first and foremost a man of incredible faith and warmth. The whole GFS family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time but no doubt you will all remember the good times. I am honoured that I have been able to spend some time with such a fantastic group of people that make up GFS, Paul’s legacy is one of touching lives across many continents.
Till we meet again
~ Andrew Lynas (Ireland), May 9th, 2008What separates a regular man from a good man? When a regular man can choose to do the right thing, the good man knows he must. When a regular man sees those better off with envy and those worse off with indifference, a good man sees only humanity. When a regular man can simply nod his head and wait for his turn to speak, a good man listens.
What separates a good man from a great man?
A great man inspires a regular man to become a good man.
~ Adam Bakker, GFS 2000-07, May 9th, 2008So many memories and opportunities of talks with Paul who shaped our spiritual, personal and professional lives over the years. One such memory was on 01291987 @ 8:30PM 24 days after I was hired. Judi and I had just welcomed our son Justin into the world and received a phone call from Paul Gordon. He spoke to Judi for 30 minutes asking how she was doing and more importantly, how our new son was doing. To this day, I have never forgotten that phone call and what an impact it made on our entire family. Paul had the ability to spread his message to every layer of the family and friends of the family and will never be forgotten. Dottie, Dan, Jim, John Sr. and the rest of the Gordon Family our prayers are with you.
~ Paul, Judi, Kelly and Justin Dow, May 9th, 2008Paul was such a gracious man, whose passionate interest in and support of Christian ministry overseas was a tremendous encoragement to so many, especially to me!
~ Terence Ascott, SAT-7 (The Middle East), May 9th, 2008Paul, you will be greatly missed! But I hope you will now get a chance to meet at least some of the millions whose lives you helped change for the better!
I have worked for gorden for 6yrs althought i never met Mr Gorden he will be missed thanks for all you did. Steve Snyder brighton dc
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008I wish to thank God for the influence of men like Paul Gordon in the business community.My son Andrew had the privilege of “interning ” with GFS after univerity and before coming into the family business in Ireland. It had a tremendous influence on him as a person and how a business can be run profitably yet with integrity.He kept talking about a “culture” and having read these tributes I begin to understand more fully that it is the people like Paul Gordon who made and still make the “culture” .Thank you to the Gordon family for their input into lives and businesses that encourage others to “do business differently ” . The prayers of the Lynas family are with you at this time
~ Anonymous, May 9th, 2008Norman Lynas -North Ireland
Bless you, my heart and prayers are with you, I can’t hide the fact that your e-mail brought tears to my eyes that ran down my face. Please send my love and condolences to all your lovely family it was such an honour to know Paul a mighty man of God and I look forward to time in heaven.
We will never be able to stand unless we are firmly fixed in the word of God! All people are born with a natural faith, but God calls us to a supernatural faith that is a gift from Him.
“Being rooted and grouned in love” Ephesians 2:11-22
~ Robert Glover OBE-Beijing China, May 9th, 2008I started with GFS in 2004 and really didn’t know what I was getting into (especially coming from the fitness industry). I’ve never experienced such a warm and friendly working environment at previous employers, but am so blessed to have landed here at GFS! I am thankful for the opportunity to work for such a great organization.
Personal memory…
The Chicago Loop office was one of the last sales offices that Paul got a chance to visit this past December. We spent the morning listening to Paul tell stories about how business was back in the 60’s and 70’s, etc. My favorite story was about how Paul decided to get into the “frozen pea” business and what he learned about freezer ventilation (or lack thereof!).
Looking back, I realized that I had a front row seat to: culture, heritage, hard-work, faith, family and history. He will always be an inspiration for me as I continue to grow with GFS.
God’s blessings to the Gordon Family during this difficult time.
~ Eric Kittel- CDS, Chicago Metro, May 9th, 2008